quinta-feira, 28 de março de 2013

A few words about my situation.

Please, my dear reader, choose a sad song as a soundtrack to read this post! Try this one, but please don’t try to commit suicide or something!:

Something happened to my laptop. I don’t know what, but it’s something related to heat. My laptop has been turning off suddenly, without a reason, for days and, now, it just doesn’t start Windows! I don’t understand much about computers. I can use them pretty well, but don’t know how to express myself (in English!) correctly about what’s happening! It’s enough to say that I can’t use my laptop. Of course, I’m not feeling fine at all, because of this! At present, I’m in my brother’s bedroom, using his old laptop. This version of Windows Live Writer is not as good as mine (don’t know why), so, I don’t have many resources … Sorry, people! :(

I’ll travel to countryside tomorrow, to spend the Easter holiday with my family. I’ll take my laptop with me and my brother will try to fix it up. Let’s cross fingers! Yesterday, he took a look at my laptop and told me that nothing happened to my precious data! Phew! … Anyway, more than one person recommend me to buy a desktop computer. Well, they are far cheaper than a laptop and my brother can build up one! Anyways, I want my laptop back! Just because I love all my things! It was my birthday gift last year, I filled it up with cute stickers and everything about it is cute! Then, I lost my previous laptop due to similar reasons. It was old, but I liked it! :(

Sooo, I hope I can solve this problem as soon as possible! Please, keep visiting my blog, I’ll do my best to keep writing posts despite of this problem! Thanks for the understanding, a big hug and happy Easter!

Luna

quarta-feira, 20 de março de 2013

A pink scarf and two great albums.

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Hi againmini_gifs184This would be the only post of today. But I had to write a few words about Emílio Santiago! Well … as I told you before, I’m feeling much better because Autumn is coming! It’s +22C at present and there’s a cool breeze outside! mini_gifs84I’ll probably feel more motivated to write posts on this blog, so, check it often, my dear reader! You’ll be surprised!

Many of you already know that I’m a knitter, right?! knitting smiley photo: Knitting Smiley 2 knitting.gifI’ll write a post about it sooner or later. But knitting is one of my dearest hobbies! Yes, it sounds a little strange, because I’m a woman from a tropical country and here we don’t have many opportunities to wear clothes and accessories made of yarn or wool. I don’t care about it, actually Alegre. My mother taught me the basics of knitting when I was a teen. But knitting became a real hobby to me a couple of years ago. It’s something I can do everywhere and I carry my knitting supplies with me every time I travel. I have a reasonable amount of colored yarn in my bedroom and studio and particularly love multi colored yarn! mini_gifs47I love colors (I bet you didn’t know that …Nhé-nhé)! Sometimes, I spend a couple of hours on Ravelry, a knitting and crochet community on internet, browsing patterns. What do I like to knit most? I think I like everything, but scarves, hats, dishcloths, washcloths, small bags, headbands and accessories are far easier and quicker to knit, so, I knit a lot of them and leave cardigans, sweaters, coats for special occasions! I’m falling in love with amigurumi (knitted or crocheted toys)! I can’t wait to start to knit them, but some patterns require abilities or skills I still don’t have! Anyways, I love to knit! mini_gifs14I consider myself an advanced beginner. And I like to knit and listen to Brazilian music at the same time minisom. I always choose a couple of my favorite cds and knit for at most two hours (I’m not able to pay attention at an activity for more than two hours. Some people call it hiperactivity …)! Yesterday, my bro worked at home, in my bedroom and I saved a couple of hours to listen to Brazilian music and finish my pink scarf. I’ve chosen two great albums of two of the greatest Brazilian singers and songwriters: Gilberto Gil and Zé Ramalho! Maybe it’s a coincidence, but they are two of my favorite Brazilian musicians! Smiley piscando I just LOVE them! mini_gifs50My life is full of stories related to MPB (Música Popular Brasileira) and when my little cousin Erik was younger (he’s 8 years old now), I used to hold him in my arms and listen to Zé Ramalho on the couch. Erik loves Zé Ramalho until today! Actually, there’s nothing special about it, but kids start to develop their musical tastes at home, with their relatives. Many kids and teens not even know who is Zé Ramalho and this is a shame, because he’s one of the greatest masters of our music and culture! The same about Gilberto Gil! I honestly think that music should be taught at school and all the generations should share their music tastes! Zé Ramalho and Gilberto Gil are much more than musicians. They represent my country and culture! Everything in their music (lyrics, rhythms, experiences) is absolutely Brazilian! I can feel my country when I listen to Zé or Gil! It’s something hard to explain. But some singers, musicians or whatever (especially the current ones) have no identity. They don’t represent their country. I can recognize immediately Brazilian songs among others because they sound different, they are unique! Brazil is probably the richest country of the world when it comes to music! music_azul

Zé Ramalho and Gilberto Gil are from the northeast of the country. A lot of great Brazilian musicians were born in the northeast, it’s a very rich region which preserves our culture! So, when you listen to Zé Ramalho and Gilberto Gil you are also learning a little bit about my country, people and culture! They are not entertainers. As I told you on my previous post, I spent my whole childhood listening to good Brazilian music at home, on the radio, everywhere. Nowadays, the most of kids and teens can’t sing or recognize our classics! Our great masters keep performing and their music still play on the radio, but on specific radio stations. When I was a kid, the best MPB was really popular, available to everyone! I was a kid and used to sing songs of Caetano Veloso, Ney Matogrosso, Maria Bethânia, Elis Regina, Gil, Zé Ramalho, Fagner, Chico Buarque (I’m mentioning only the masters!)! The best Brazilian musicians wrote and sang songs for the soundtracks of our soap operas back then! I can’t say that things didn’t get worse, because, yes, they got worse! Believe me: when you listen to high quality music, read high quality books, etc., you become a better person! I don’t accept rubbish because I had a good education! Of course, I also like bad music, but I know that it’s rubbish! I will share with you, someday, my bad tastes. You will get shocked! *lol* Smiley surpresoI know it’s rubbish! And I don’t spend money on rubbish! If you listen to Gilberto Gil, you can’t accept Michel Teló (who doesn’t know him?!), unless you are completely drunk at a party! If we demanded high quality entertainment, it would be better to all of us! But, if people only know rubbish, they can’t demand high quality entertainment!

Gilberto Gil and Zé Ramalho can be appreciated by everyone! The two albums I mentioned (São João Vivo!, of Gilberto Gil and Zé Ramalho Canta Jackson do Pandeiro, of Zé Ramalho) are EXTREMELY POPULAR! They are tributes to two great masters: Luiz Gonzaga and Jackson do Pandeiro! These musicians are the best exponents of the northeast culture! They are dead, but their music is part of all of us. When I listen to Luiz Gonzaga and Jackson do Pandeiro, I really feel that I belong to Brazil! My rhythms, my reality, my culture! Despite all the differences between northeast and southeast, I feel Brazilian when I listen to their songs! So, São João Vivo! and Zé Ramalho Canta Jackson do Pandeiro are special for many reasons! It’s always a pleasure to listen to them!

Of course, I will share something with you! Save a couple of hours to enjoy this songs, if you can! They are lovely! mini_gifs51

Stay tuned! I’ll be back!

Brazilian hugs,

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São João Vivo! – Live album of Gilberto Gil, recorded at a show in São Paulo (unfortunately I wasn’t there …mini_gifs18). Released in 2001, it’s a tribute to Luiz Gonzaga, the master of baião and forró (Brazilian music styles from the northeast). Gil sings many songs of Luiz Gonzaga in this album and a few songs of his own. It’s an excelent album and also a reference to the Festas Juninas (June Parties), typical Brazilian celebrations (I’ll talk about it in the future!):

Olha Pro Céu (Luiz Gonzaga) – A lovely hit of Luiz Gonzaga, by Gilberto Gil!

Madalena (Gilberto Gil) – Here you can see Gilberto Gil singing one of his greatest hits!

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Zé Ramalho Canta Jackson do Pandeiro – Released on 2010, this album is a tribute to Jackson do Pandeiro, the King Of Rhythm. Zé Ramalho sings songs of Mestre Jack (Master Jack). I love this album!

O Canto da Ema (Jackson do Pandeiro) – This is one of the greatest hits of Jackson do Pandeiro! I love it, I can listen to this song dozens of times a day! Still prefer the original one, but this version of Zé Ramalho is lovely! ^^

Chiclete com Banana (Jackson do Pandeiro) – This is a real hit! This song of Jackson do Pandeiro was recorded by dozens of Brazilian singers, including Gilberto Gil! This version of Zé Ramalho is delicious!

P.S.: Here’s my pink scarf. This is not the best picture I’ve ever taken in my life, but, you can check my knitting skills! Smiley piscandoHere’s the pattern, if you want to knit one for yourself. It’s a quick and easy project, I really liked to knit it! http://tinyant-art.blogspot.com.br/2012/08/v-scarf.html

Zig Zag Scarf

R.I.P. Emílio Santiago.

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How are you doing? I’m doing fine, trying to handle all my duties and responsibilities, as ever, but much happier because Autumn is coming and the weather is finally getting cooler! mini_gifs76

Well, sometimes unexpected things happen and we, bloggers, need to change our plans a little bit and write about something completely different. I read the news on internet, as ever, and knew that one of the most talented Brazilian singers, Emílio Santiago, died today. He was 66 years old. And everytime a famous person dies in Brazil, a lot of people feel the need to make a thousand compliments on him/her. Dead people become heroes or gods, in Brazil. Of course, there are rude and bad educated creatures here, too, who take the opportunity to say terrible things about someone who died. I don’t agree with both attitudes. So, I would never say something about a famous person’s death if I didn’t feel the need to do it! I think I must say a word or two about Emílio Santiago because I really like him! I’m not an expert in Brazilian music, but I know enough about it to make some comments. I’ve always said that the three greatest singers of this country are Ney Matogrosso, Milton Nascimento and Emílio Santiago! They are real singers, owners of unique, unmistakable voices!

I spent my whole childhood listening to good Brazilian music on the radio and of course I remember Emílio Santiago and his greatest hits! He was born on December 6, 1946, in Rio de Janeiro, studied to be a lawyer, but decided to become a singer, for our luck!AlegreHe released dozens of albums! And his deep, warm, melodic, sensual voice is so Brazilian! Emílio Santiago could sing every type of music I guess, but his interpretations of samba and bossa nova classics are special! minisomI don’t know all his repertory yet, but know enough to love him! mini_gifs82His voice is SO awesome! While I write this post, I’m listening to his last album, Só Danço Samba, a compilation of samba and bossa nova hits! It was released on 2010. Wow! … mini_gifs180I would like to be at the beach, layed on a rede, just enjoying the moment! I think I’ll always connect Emílio Santiago with the beach because when I was a teen, me and my family travelled to the coast and I listened to Emílio Santiago every single day in the hotel! The most of his songs have this vibe: beach … waves … cool breeze … relaxing time! This is a rede, by the way:

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Emílio Santiago will always be one of the greatest Brazilian singers of all time! So, I don’t agree when people say that his death was “a great lost”. We all will die someday! We can escape from everything, except from death! But music is something eternal! music_azul Emílio Santiago died because his mission here is over (according to my beliefs, of course). But, hey, it was a great mission! He made thousands of people happier with his voice and presence! His voice is unique, unmistakable, he’s part of our history and culture! He shared his gift with us and we, Brazilian people, can be proud to be Brazilians because of him! Our music is unique! “A great lost” is not the death of unique people who shared their gifts with us. A great lost is the life of the ones who don’t follow their dreams and try to be unique! A great lost is the life of the ones who have no courage to be themselves! Emílio is dead. Ok. I’ll be dead someday, too. And you, my dear reader! The question is: will we do something to be reminded? Well … I will!

If I could say something to Emílio, it would be: THANK YOU! Thanks for making this world a better place with your unique voice! Rest in peace! And feel happy: you will be eternal while people listen to your songs!

Of course, I’ll share something with you guys. I must say that Brazilian music is pretty unique, so, don’t expect pop songs! That’s all for now! I’ll return today! Stay tuned! Listen to Emílio Santiago! And be happy!

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Verdade Chinesa – Emílio Santiago:

One of my favorite songs of all time! Beautiful lyrics, nice interpretation! A musical trip! I love to sing this song!

Saigon – Emílio Santiago:

This is his greatest hit! A classic! Beautiful song! The video is cheesy, but, please, pay attention at the song!Smiley mostrando a língua

Tudo Que Se Quer – Emílio Santiago e Verônica Sabino:

Just listen to this song! It’s amazing!

 

quinta-feira, 14 de março de 2013

A cheesy motivation.

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Good night, my dear readersmini_gifs187adopt-aurorabluHow are you doing? I’m tired and hungry, but fine. This won’t be the best post of my life; actually I’m here to say hello and tell you a story. Some of you probably know that I take belly dance lessons. I started to do it when I was 16 years old. It’s one of my biggest passions! minisomI believe I’m a good belly dancer, but I’m very very shy, so, I honestly don’t like to perform to big audiences Smiley envergonhado. No, I won’t upload a video or something on this blog, at least for now! Nhé-nhéI dance because I like it, not because I want to catch attention. Yes, belly dance is something very feminine and sensual, but I like to dance it spontaneously, all over my apartment, just following the rhythm! mini_gifs180Of course, I have my belly dance outfit, but I take belly dance lessons in a short tee (t-shirt) and large pants, not very … exotic, I’m afraid!

Many women (probably the most of them) choose to take belly dance lessons, because it’s feminine, sensual and nice to entertain boyfriends and husbands. I can say that belly dance is much more than an entertainment, but I don’t want to talk about the spiritual side of the dance right now. My motivation was completely different. And that’s what I want to tell you! I was too young to think about boyfriends and husbands. Actually, if I remember correctly, I was a 10 year-old kid. There was a soap opera on tv, called Sassaricando. Every soap opera in Brazil has a soundtrack. When I was a kid, there was a Long Play (LP … Do you remember that?! Oh, my God, I’m getting old! I listened to records, when I was a kid! Smiley surpreso) with Brazilian songs and a Long Play with foreign songs. Well, the international soundtrack of this soap opera, Sassaricando, had one song, a type of Arabian pop called Fatamorgana, of a German rock band (!) (Dissidenten). The members of this group played with people from Middle East and India (according to Wikipedia). Well, when I listened to Fatamorgana for the first time, I fell in love immediately! mini_gifs14 It’s an extremely cheesy song, a pop song, but I’ve always loved percussion instruments and the Arabian beat of the song caught my attention! It was an amazing experience to listen to that! And, of course, then I discovered the belly dance. And fell in love with everything: the outfit, the instruments, the dance styles and all the feminine, sensual and exotic atmosphere! Daddy didn’t want me to take belly dance lessons when I was a kid, but when I became a teenager, I started to do it at the gym. Of course, it wasn’t easy to find the right place, but all the comings and goings gave me a lot of experience! AlegreIt’s funny to think that everything started because of a cheesy pop song, which belonged to the soundtrack of a soap opera! I didn’t want to lose weight, impress my boyfriend or husband, regain my femininity or catch attention. I was a kid! I only wanted to be able to follow the rhythm of a song!

Today, I can follow the rhythm of real belly dance songs. But Fatamorgana still sounds special to me! It reminds me of my childhood. It’s good to have sweet memories! I had a cheesy motivation to start my belly dance journey. But, who needs a noble reason?!

That’s all for now, folks! Stay tuned! I’ll be back!

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terça-feira, 12 de março de 2013

The male stripper incident.

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Here I am, wishing for some inspiration in this torrid night! miniventiladorIt’s +28C and 09:44 PM!!!! Smiley surpresoYesterday night, I read a very interesting news on internet about an episode that happened somewhere in Santa Catarina (south of Brazil), involving the mayor, a male stripper and hundreds of cheerful women (city hall employees), one day before the International Women’s Day. It seems (according to some accusations) that the mayor used public money (from taxes) to hire the male stripper and please the cheerful women at a party. Do I need to say that public money shouldn’t be used to hire male strippers for parties? There are more urgent problems to solve or things to do, like investiments in hospitals, schools, public transportation and stuff. To hire a male stripper for a party is not a priority of any government. I guess. What made me laugh and be proud to live in such a peculiar country (yeah … there’s a little bit of sarcasm right here), was the news itself! A masterpiece, when it comes to nonsense situations, stupid excuses and sexist ideas about what do women really need at an International Women’s Day party! We, Brazilian women, need respect and public policies which protect us from violence and ensure basic rights, like education, health care and job opportunities. The news is so amazing, that I decided to translate and share it with you guys! It’s from one of the main Brazilian newspapers (it doesn’t mean that it’s a reliable newspaper!): Folha de São Paulo. I’ll do my best to be as precise as possible, but it won’t be a literal translation! Then, I’ll make some comments.

Prosecutors investigate male stripper at a party of the City Hall of Palhoça (SC – Santa Catarina):

by Luiza Bandeira, from São Paulo (Folha de São Paulo – 11/03/13 – 07:39 PM)

The Public Ministry of Santa Catarina opened an investigation to check if the City Hall of Palhoça has used public money to hire a so-called go-go boy [that’s the way we, Brazilian people, call the male strippers] who performed at a party on Thursday (March 7) in honor of the International Women’s Day.

The man, identified as Renato Mendonça, wandered around the event wearing only a transparent black underwear. Pictures posted on internet show him dancing with some of the around 1 300 city hall female employees who were at the place.

According to the acting mayor of the municipality, Nirdo Artur Luz, also know as Pitanta (DEM, a Brazilian political party), the man wasn’t a go-go boy, but a model. “He was wearing a black boxer underwear. According to informations, the go-go boy performs wearing a white Zorba [underwear brand]. And the model, wearing a black boxer”, he said.

The mayor also said that the man didn’t do a striptease. “He couldn’t. My daughters and wife were there. I gave 1 500 flowers to the female emplyees and, then, he took off his shirt and stayed there, in his black boxer”, said Pitanta.

According to the mayor, all the women who were at the party enjoyed the show. “He looks exactly like Paulo Zulu [Brazilian model]. They loved him. Only one female employee, who not even was there and is politically against me, complained about it. She wants to ruin the image of the mayor”, he justified.

Pitanta said that it was a voluntary performance, because the model wanted to promote himself and his magazine – he’s the cover of the March edition of the G Magazine [a type of Playboy, but for gays. And women.], which was given to the public at the party. In his Facebook account, Mendonça said that he has been Mister Santa Catarina, once.

“DIGNIFIED PARTY”:

The mayor said that he cancelled the R$ 7 500,00 reservation he made [it’s a reasonable amount of money, if you want to know] to pay the expenses of the party – rent, snacks and soda, without predicting expenses with the go-go boy. According to him, there wasn’t public money involved in the event, because there wasn’t any plan about the presence of a model there.

He said, though, that go-go boys have already performed at parties of other public administrations in town. “Every year, there’s a performance. There was even a striptease. With a white Zorba and stuff”, he told.

The mayor informed that an administrative investigation will be open against the director of events of the City Hall, Edmilson Cruz, who organized the party. He will be responsible to pay the expenses.

Cruz said that the model was there to promote a cocktail company. He said he didn’t know that the man would be in underwear, anyway, when he knew it, he gave permission to the model to wander around the place even so. “Do you believe that in Big Brother there’s some type of scandal if a man wanders around the house in underwear? What if I hired Ney Matogrosso [one of the most talented and famous Brazilian singers. The director mentioned Ney Matogrosso because his performances are usually very sexy.] and he danced in underwear? Nobody got shocked”, he said.

The employee defended the party. “There was a lecture, distribution of roses. It was a a dignified party.”

Here’s the link, of the original news: http://www1.folha.uol.com.br/cotidiano/1244545-promotoria-investiga-go-go-boy-em-festa-da-prefeitura-de-palhoca-sc.shtml

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Well, I think that this news shows, explicitly, the confusion between what’s public and what’s private in Brazil. Believe me: this is one of our main problems! People here can’t distinguish what’s public from what’s private! In my opinion, it’s a bad taste attitude, at least, to hire a male stripper to please a bunch of cheerful (and maybe desperate) female employees, at a party in honor of the International Women’s Day! It didn’t happen at a private company or institution, it happened at the City Hall! It doesn’t matter if the party itself happened exactly at the City Hall or not, our politicians should have better ideas to entertain women one day before the International Women’s Day! As I told you before, it’s not exactly a day of celebration! The excuses of the mayor are absolutely ridiculous, I had to laugh! The best was the one about the differences between go-go boys and models: “go-go boys wear white underwear and models wear black boxers”. Like … WTF?! Smiley confuso It doesn’t matter at all! I bet that the women who were enjoying the show, didn’t pay too much attention at this detail! There was a man at the party, entertaining the female employees, period. I can’t say that the mayor (or the responsibles for the event) really used public money to pay the expenses. If they did, this is disgusting! People pay taxes to finance this?! Wow! Great …

I don’t know, maybe I’m just a woman who doesn’t like male strippers at all. They are not my type of men and stripteases are a little too cheesy for my liking! I would probably feel depressed if a man made of prominent muscles tried to seduce me in a black transparent boxer, dancing. I would feel happier in a heavy metal concert, if you know what I mean Smiley piscando. Anyways, I feel a little ashamed to know that a City Hall offers this type of entertainment to female employees at a party in honor of the International Women’s Day. One guy said that there was also a lecture, at the party. About what? “How to do a striptease for your hubby in ten easy steps”? As we use to say in Brazil: Ninguém merece! (Nobody deserves it!)

Now, I’ll have my dinner. Stay tuned! I’ll be back! And I’ll end this post with a song, a very nice one, actually. My Brazilian readers will understand the joke. This song was the soundtrack of a Brazilian soap opera about male strippers. C’mon guys, dress your best underwear, feel the vibe and dance! *lol* (I’m kidding!)

Hugs,

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segunda-feira, 11 de março de 2013

Consumerism: the 21st century plague.

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Boa noite, meus queridos leitores! So, how was your weekend? Mine was exhausting. But, here I am again, ready for a new week, full of things to do and newsletters from stores and companies to receive! Irritado Of course, I can choose the option “unsubscribe”, but it’s quite interesting to observe that the quantity of newsletters has been growing exponentially! It seems that the owners of the stores and companies really want me to consume. The propaganda is getting more and more aggressive. The problem is that I’m not in the mood to consume lately, and all these newsletters are not helping at all!

This is probably the first time that I’m writing about consumerism on this blog, but won’t be the last! I’m going through deep changes and my environmentalist side is showing up much more often! I’m just tired of people trying to convince me that I need new perfumes, purses, clothes, pairs of shoes, accessories, shampoos, body lotions, nail polishes, etc., because, no, I don’t! Have you ever thought about all the things you have, my dear reader? Are they really necessary? Do they make you feel happy? Are you a consumerist person? If so, I’m really sorry for you and hope you can think about your attitudes. Not only because of environmental reasons, but because consumerism is a meaningless thing! It really is!

Once upon a time, in the beginning of our history, human beings were guided by necessity. So, if they needed food, they looked for or produced it. If they needed weapons, clothes and every type of supplies, they produced them. In a certain moment, people started to exchange things and some human beings became specialized in producing certain items. Of course, from the beginning, a few human beings (stronger, smarter or just evil), exploited others, becoming an elite. And probably this elite had the great idea of creating something called money. Little by little, the most of humanity has lost the capacity and skills to produce their own food, clothes, weapons, supplies and became completely dependant on money and another creation of the elite: industry. Are you able to produce your own food, dear reader? Do you know where does your food come from? Can you cook? Can you make your own clothes and accessories? Are you able to build up a house by yourself? Probably not. So, you depend on this system. More than this: you are a slave of this system. I don’t want my precious readers to commit suicide, but some truths must be said! Nowadays, the most of humanity is completely unable to do something by itself! People are completely dependant on industry and money! Without money, we can’t live in this system! The elite knows that. And they want their slaves to behave well. That’s why they created something called consumerism. Once upon a time, when capitalism was created, people still were guided by necessity. And this behaviour lasted for centuries! My lovely grandparents, for instance, spent their whole lives with the same stuff at home! Smiley surpresoMy paternal granny was able to do everything, from food to clothes! Unfortunately, she passed away when I was a kid, so, I couldn’t be her apprentice! I would love to! … My maternal granny was the prototype of the wise black woman: she could recognize every single plant in a yard or farm! She could make handmade medicines. And, believe me: they really work! I can make a few teas and handmade medicines thanks to her! My grandparents didn’t need to go to the hospital, they were strong and healthy! And, as I told you before, their goods were made to last! I still have a beautiful knitted cardigan, which belonged to my paternal granny. It’s perfect! I think that this cardigan can resist to a nuclear bomb! I remember that my paternal grandpa, a stubborn Hungarian man, wanted to fix up everything! He just couldn’t accept the idea that things break and become useless! Sometimes, we needed to hide broken things from him! *lol* And throw them away, of course. I’m telling you this because there’s a huge difference of mentality, attitude and reality between my grandparents’ society and our society. My grannies got mad if me and my brother didn’t eat everything at lunch or dinner, because food wasn’t something to throw away back then. If my grandparents were alive, they would feel depressed in this modern world, where everything is disposable! My Hungarian grandpa would be insane with all these products made in China, impossible to fix up and made to break in a few months! toinUnfortunately, things got worse in many ways! Nowadays, the most of people are not able to do things with their own hands. The old knowledge about plants, medicines, recipes is disappearing in many places. And people are not guided by necessity anymore. Especially because our goods are not made to last!

I use to say that this society is based on two things: job and consumerism. People work to consume. And don’t consume because they need something. They consume to be someone! This is serious! You don’t buy exactly products, you buy lifestyles and they say a lot about you (superficially speaking). Here in Brazil, for instance, a person who wears the same clothes more than two days in the same week, is discriminated! We are judged by our look, by the clothes and accessories we wear. So, people consume to build up a self-image! And we all know how hard it is to escape from the necessity to be accepted. When, on Winter, I decide to go out wearing my best clothes and accessories, people treat me like a queen. The same doesn’t happen when I go out in my old sweater, old pants and old tennis shoes. A silly example: you already know that I’m fond of cute stuff, right?! mini_gifs63It seems that we are having an “iphone case mania” in Brazil, lately. There are many cute cases for iphone, including Hello Kitty ones th_0119h2_08. It seems that every fancy girl has an iphone case in São Paulo. The problem is that I don’t have (and won’t have) an iphone. I have a Samsung Galaxy S2. I can have a cute case for my smartphone, but they are more difficult to find. So, I need to be strong to resist to the stupid idea that I am not that fancy, because my smartphone doesn’t have a cute case! Is it silly? Of course! But that’s how consumerism becomes part of people’s lives! You feel you are not cool enough, because you don’t have a certain product. Who the hell really needs a Hello Kitty iphone case?! The fact is that we don’t really need at least the half of things we have!

Of course, I’m talking about middle class people, who have a computer to read this blog (I’m talking about me, too). There are many human beings in this planet who not even have clean water to drink! Consumerism increases selfishness. Do you, my dear female reader, think about all the women of this planet who don’t have a pair of shoes, when you want to buy your hundredth pair of shoes? Of course, you don’t! Do you think about how many people are exploited to produce your expensive clothes? Do you know where do your goods come from? No, you don’t. Selfishness is an ugly thing. Of course, it’s not completely our fault. But we really need to think about our necessities. How many things do we throw away every year? How many unecessary things do we have? Have you ever regretted of something you bought on impulse, my dear reader? I bet you did! Why do people buy on impulse? Recently I read an article about it (Impulse buying reaches 85% of the consumers, here is the article, in Portuguese. Yeah! Scary!). Basically, people feel empty, depressed, anxious and insecure, so, they consume. The problem is that consumerism leads to more depression, anxiety and insecurity! As I told you before, it’s meaningless! People don’t consume to have things, they consume to be someone!

Of course, I’m not perfect. I’m made of flesh, bones and desires, exactly like you, my dear readers! I’m a woman, a very feminine one, so, of course I make my mistakes and have my weaknesses! I like expensive brands (Givenchy, L’Occitane, Louis Vuitton, Cacharel, Bourjois). I’m fond of some things, like rings and earrings. I have many things I don’t really need. But, I’m far less consumerist than I was! As I told you before, I’m going through deep changes and they include a whole new lifestyle! I’m completely fond of handmade things, so, I’m making the most I can with my hands. It’s incredible, but my will to consume decreased drastically because of this! That’s why I receive dozens of newsletters and don’t give a damn about them! I don’t need to consume to be someone! And I think that capitalism is collapsing, so, we really need to think about alternative solutions! Life cannot be based on consumerism!

This is only the beginning of a series of posts about this subject. Of course, I will keep talking about other subjects, but this is really important! The natural resources of this planet are disappearing, there’s an economic crisis all over the world, so, I think we really need to think about our attitudes! Consumerism is one of the worst behaviours we can have! It leads to debt, depression, anxiety, insecurity and the gradual destruction of this planet. So, I will talk about it and try to share my personal experiences, tips and tricks to get rid of consumerism! Hope you participate on this discussion somehow! And now I share with you a very interesting video about consumerism, called The Good Consumer. Worth watching!

That’s all for now, folks, it’s late, I’m starving, etc. Sooo, stay tuned! I’ll be back!

Big hug,

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